I need help about my love problem | Advice - Relationships | Forum

Hello Friends I am 26 year old boy from Mumbai India. 

This is my conversation with my Love (Girl) that i want to share here in between you.

So please advice me what to do after this ? thanks.

But before start i want to say some real things,

if you don't belongs to rich family have bank balances, banglow & car, 

then don't think about having girlfriend & dating. 

because girls can't give you priority & don't like to see you.

 

This Generation Every Girls want to marry a guy who was belongs 

from rich family, or if he was rich seperately. 

Whether that guy is Good looking Or Ugly

even he his her Older Father & Grandpaa age persons doesn't matter

but person should be Rich.

 

A Boy (Me) Love a Girl they both are nice friend 

and working in same office from 2 years. One Day the Boy Proposed the Girl. 

Girl Accepted this marriage proposal request, 

But After What happens in between both of them 

that i want to describe in this lession. 

This is my some conversation Between Boy (Me) and Girl. 

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Boy to Girl : Dear I Love You from my heart i want to marry with you. 

Can you marry me ? (Proposed) 

 

Girl to Boy : Yes Yes I feel great marry with you (Happy Face) 

 

Boy to Girl : Dear I like you from my heart am always take cares of you 

& keep you happy in life, i promise you to fullfill every needs after our marriage. 

But i have say something to you after marriage am not stay in my banglow 

even not use my car & not want to waste my bank balances for unnessesary shoppings. 

After married we stay at my double-room small home, 

we both use public transports for travels, 

I don't like to much ornaments so after the limit no more money for extra ornaments & 

extra unnessesary shoppings. But for foods and daily life nessesary things  

i will daily give you money for that. (Serious Face)

 

Girl to Boy : Then what you can do with your bank balances, banglow & car ?

(Shocking Face)

 

Boy to Girl : Dear Banglow & car's Owner is my family. 

I am only son of that family so after marraige banglow & car will not mine. 

Dear my family not likes love marriages. After our marraige they will throw me 

out of banglow & from all judiscial properties. But No problem to me because

I fell in love with you truely from my heart So I tolerate to leave this

comfortable things for you. (Serious Face)

 

Girl to Boy : Oops but why to leave banglow, car, bank balances

and properties ? (Shocking Face)

 

Boy to Girl : No Problem Dear I Have my Job. (Normal Face)

 

Girl to Boy : It enough but i am joking about your 

marriage proposal. (Fake Smiling Face)

 

Boy to Girl : What happens dear are you want to marry with me 

or my bank balances, banglow & car ? I am leaving my family

& my banglow, car & bank balances for you. I love you from my heart 

even i promised you to take care of you always. (Serious Face)

 

Girl to Boy : Go away i dont want to talk you again. (Angry) (Went Away)

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Now In this case what to say & understand.
Please help thanks.

Definitely NOT love!

 

Love isn't about material things. Its not about buying presents or fancy things like a grand house and expensive car. 

Love is about being who you say you are, and about being w/ someone. 

 

We may like nice things and cool stuff. But if we valued them more than our loved ones, the relationship becomes a downhill ride. And the materialistic one ends up at the bottom alone.

 

So dear Boy, don't bother yourself with that kind of girl. You're still young, go find yourself another lady whose mature enough to love you beyond the material things that you can offer, instead will love you for who and what you are.

And if you find that kind of girl, love her truly and spend the rest of your life making her happy.

 

^_^