The Seven Week Road Trip

Our seven week trip across the country (Ohio to Ohio) has come to an end. While I couldn't wait for some R&R back home and a big wet smack-a-roo from my dog, Faith, completing the trip was sad for sure. There's nothing like a road trip to experience complete freedom, adventure, and detachment, while also learning so much about yourself (and if you're traveling with someone like I did, you learn so much about that other person, too!) I hope to never forget the experiences, the people, places, and faces. Below are a collection of my favorite photos taken on the trip. I hope you enjoy looking at them as much as I enjoyed being there taking them!
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Our first stop along the way was Nashville, TN, my one time home and home to many country music stars. I loved this hot dog stand and the fun slogan, "I Dream of Weenie".

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Three hours from Nashville is another music hub, better known for its blues and Elvis Presley; Memphis, TN. This turned out to be one of our all time favorite stops on the trip, with some of the best live blues music I've ever heard and the best food I've ever had.

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Jumping shots somewhere along the way became my "thing". They're so much fun to do and trying to snap the photo at exactly the right time makes for one giant giggling event. This is somewhere along the road in the deserts of New Mexico.

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This jewel of a town is known as Madrid, NM and was an unexpected stop along the way. We ended up roaming around for a couple hours going into all the art galleries and jewelry shops and also grabbing a yummy milkshake at an old fashion styled soda fountain.

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Santa Fe, New Mexico, another great stop on the way. The town happened to be having their weekly outdoor festival so we were able to eat cheap burritos from a small stand and listen to some live local music in the town square.

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Ah, the gorgeous Grand Canyon National Park in Arizona. We spent two days here. Can't believe I braved this shot after browsing through the shocking book titled Over the Edge: Death in Grand Canyon.

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After hitting up Las Vegas, NV for a few days we then explored the Hoover Dam.

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We were able to drive a bit on the Historic Route 66 during our trip and once we arrived on the Santa Monica, Pier in CA, we were overjoyed to see we had hit the end of it! (We also got to see the sign declaring the start of it in Chicago much later on!)

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A beautiful spot among beautiful spots along California State Route 1.

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An Amish family enjoying the beach along The Pacific Coast Highway - a rare sight to see indeed!

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Pacific Coast Highway in Oregon.

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The little city of Astoria, Oregon at nightfall from atop the Astoria Column. I loved this little town so much- another great spot for good food and beer. Also, it has an amazing bridge and is the filming location for my favorite 80's movie The Goonies and many others. If I had to live in any tiny town, I think it'd be this one!

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Yellowstone National Park, which is so big it spans three states, Wyoming, Montana, and Idaho! We spent two days here and there's so much variety to the park from geysers to sparkling lakes and waterfalls to wildlife. Highly, highly recommend a visit here.

Other stops along the way: Albuquerque, NM, Los Angeles, CA, San Francisco, CA, Portland, OR, Seattle, WA, Roslyn, WA, Boulder, CO, Denver, CO, Chicago, IL.

California State Route 1

If you are not familiar with California's State Route 1, it's one of the most beautiful winding roads along the coast of the Pacific Ocean. I am still on my road trip across the country and about to enter into Oregon on our way to Portland. We just left the wonderful city of San Francisco. Below is a photo shot from the route. Still having a great time!!
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Traveling Across the Country

I was recently asked what happened to me as I haven't posted in awhile.

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You see, I am currently traveling the country by car! Above is a photo from the beautiful Grand Canyon in Arizona. Here are the other places I have been so far (in order of visit) :

Nashville, Tennessee

Memphis, Tennessee

Houston, Texas

Austin, Texas

Albuquerque, New Mexico

Santa Fe, New Mexico

Four Corners

Grand Canyon National Park, Arizona

(and currently) Las Vegas, Nevada!

Los Angeles is next up and I hope to stay for about a month or so.

So there you have it. It's been a wonderful experience so far. Traveling is always good for the soul.

Have any of you been to these places? If so, what do you think?

 

Summer Strawberries

For as long as I can remember, every summer during my childhood my family drove out into the country to a local farm to pick strawberries. The tradition still carries on today. Below are photos from the most recent picking:

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The strawberries go on top of our breakfast cereals, covered with sugar and eaten from a bowl (dad's favorite), or into my mom's strawberry pie. It's one of my favorite summer activities!

The Love Ring

Today a small brown square package arrived at my door.
Inside the package was bright pink bubble wrap.
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Inside the bright pink bubble wrap was a tiny box.
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Inside the tiny box was a tiny ring.
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The ring displayed a tiny word: Love
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14 karat gold filled: Love
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Handmade: Love
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It was a perfect fit.
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Get your very own Love Ring!

Looking For Your Personal Stories

I started My Indian Love as a personal relationship blog and even though my relationship with My Indian Love has ended, I put a lot of work into this site and still greatly enjoy blogging and hearing from readers. So the decision to keep it up and running was an easy one. But, to keep it exciting and new, I'm going to need your help!

I'm looking for personal stories to share as your very own blog posts. If you're open to sharing and looking to discuss with readers, contact me with your story and become a guest blogger!

I'm hoping My Indian Love can evolve into a unique one-stop blog where you can find and share relationship advice, shop for all your Indian goodies, and form a community in the forums. Though I will continue sharing my own personal stories when the feeling moves me, I really want this blog to function much on it's own and with enough reader's contributions, it could work! Let's do this!

Bridal Shower

A few months before leaving for the ship, I played a little matchmaker and set two friends of mine up on a blind date together. Fast forward to now, and they are engaged to be married August 13th of this year! I couldn't be more happy for them and they really make a great couple. The bridal shower was yesterday evening at a local library and I brought along my Nikon D-80 to capture the moment. I'm still trying to master this baby ever since it was gifted to me by MIM's uncle. Thought I'd share a few photos I shot below.

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First Indian Restaurant in Town

That's right, we've finally gotten our very own Indian restaurant here in town. No more driving an hour into the city to feast on delectable Indian food and lassi, no more buying frozen Indian meals from the grocery store and heating them up in the microwave.

Yup, after three long years doing the above just for a taste of Indian cuisine, after our breakup an Indian restaurant moves in - to rub it in our faces? To spite us? We will never know. But what I do know is, I have no one to go with anymore!!!

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New Indian Restaurant in Town: Bombay Star

Well, Raj, the partial owner, doesn't look that friendly anyway!

Changes

Hey all! You probably can tell that there have been many changes to My Indian Love. We switched to a new theme which is taking some getting used to. You may come across some kinks or things that may seem a bit off aesthetically but don't worry - it will all come together in time! Thanks for being patient!

On the other hand, the store is coming along nicely! Check it out if you haven't already. It's brand new to the site.

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Will I Ever Date Another Indian?

Recently in the forums we got to discussing whether or not I would date another Indian if the opportunity ever arose. What started the conversation was me saying this:

As for me, I believe my experience with Indian relationships have come and gone. I'm not sure if I could go through it again. But India and all things Indian will always have a special place in my heart.

The responses got me to thinking and I thought the topic would make for a good blog post and further discussion.

I believe there are mostly two ways relationships with Indians begin:

There are those who first fall in love with India and due to this stumble on an Indian love, and then there are those who stumble upon an Indian and thus fall in love with India.

I fit in the latter. I never expected to meet and fall in love with MIM and I really never expected to have anything to do with India. (Isn't it great when life throws curve balls?) So now that it's finished, I find it hard to imagine starting all over again from square one with another Indian. I put so much blood, sweat, and tears into MIM and I's relationship that when it finally ended, all I felt was relief - to be honest.

I would like to clarify that our relationship wasn't bad. MIM was a great guy all the way and treated me wonderfully. But over time I couldn't see us evolving into husband and wife and our differences and small arguments here and there started to take a toll on us. In the end it simply became easier to walk away then to stay and fight what seemed like a losing battle. I'm sure a lot of you have been there: when enough is enough and walking away seems like the quickest way to renewed happiness for both involved.

When we first split I did think - man, I should just stick to Indians now that I've put so much work into learning  about their language, culture, food, and country - not to mention this website! But then I left for my six month contract on a ship and suddenly found myself with an American man who I started to share my time with.

Very quickly I realized how much I missed the ease of being with someone who "gets you" and whom you by default already share so much in common with. I realized how much I missed and yearned for similarities between two people.

I still reminisce and get wistful whenever I see Indians, especially cute Indian children, and just today while at the store I saw an Indian man/American woman couple with their three children. Perhaps in time these feelings will go away but, I spent so many years imagining myself with and Indian man and what our family would be like that I know this will take time to forget.

The short answer to the question will I ever date another Indian is: most likely not. As I said in the beginning of this post, I stumbled upon an Indian love and that led to my love of all things Indian. I wasn't looking for it and I'm still not. So chances are, no, it won't happen again. Of course in life I've learned to never say never!

Now I would love to hear from all of you! What made you date outside your culture/race and if it ended, have you or will you do it again?

 

My Indian Love’s New Forum!

The forum is up and running and waiting for you! Click here to read and post. See you there!

Home Sweet Home

That's right dear readers! I am back home, sweet, home from my six month singing contract aboard the Carnival Cruise Ship Pride. I am amazed that in my absence the blog continued on so strong! Over 500 comments on one post?! Wow!

During this time I had very limited internet access and therefore was unable to be the best blogger/monitor so my apologies if emails and comments went unanswered or anything else may have unraveled. On the other hand, it was a great relief to spend so much time away from the computer. I needed the break, trust me!

If you want to know anything about my experience working and living aboard the ship don't hesitate to ask. What I will say here is that it was an amazing time, one in which I got to live out my dream of being paid to do what I ultimately love the most; singing! I met some wonderful people who will remain long-lasting friends. I became better at my craft and I got to travel and live lavishly. What more could a girl ask for?

Ok, so what must be on your mind even more than the cruise ship experience is what's up with MIM and I. Am I right? Of course, this still is a blog about Indian Love! If you have been following for some time you will remember towards the end we were experiencing problems in our relationship. The differences we initially used to love about each other started to take a toll on us. Added to this, we both were struggling financially. When the ship opportunity came along, I accepted eagerly but of course this meant being far away from MIM. We lost touch over the duration of the contract, mostly because his way of moving on is shutting down communication completely. It is not my way to handle things but, what can I do? I've left him alone. Hopefully, life is treating him well and he is very happy. As far as I know he's still here in town, only a few minutes away from me currently, but I am not planning on contacting him while I am home. I know it's what he would want and, it's probably for the best.

I miss him terribly and think about him a lot, that will never change. As I recently stated on my "Welcome!" page, after much deliberation I've decided to keep My Indian Love active even considering recent events in our relationship. I still have a soft spot for all things Indian and believe I always will. I still enjoy reading your comments and am grateful to those who continued visiting my blog and keeping it active during my absence. I will not have a huge presence on this blog but I invite you all to take part in the forum I will soon input and to consider writing articles/posts of your own that could be published for all to see. To do this, click on contact me in the tabs section.

It's good to be home and thanks again for being faithful readers!