When I was thinking of starting a website, I wanted to make sure it could be interesting not just for myself but for others as well. I researched some pointers online and one thing that was always recommended was to find your 'niche'. So I put down some of my 'niches' to paper. Hmmm. I like to sing, to hike, I like dogs, health food, traveling, and I have an Indian boyfriend. Then I asked myself, which one of these is the most unique? And bam. I had my niche. I told My Indian Man, "hunny, you're my niche. Thanks."
Since starting this website I have realized how great it is to be involved in a community of Indian Love's. For me, since My Indian Man is away, it gives me a lot of comfort to blog and receive comments from others reaching out. And when he comes home, it will still be a vehicle to share information knowing there are others out there listening and lending their kind words.
Recently, I received a very nice comment from an English woman I will refer to as "R". We then continued the conversation through email. My post, Are You His "Holdiay in Goa"? hit home for her, because she actually DID meet her Indian Man while vacationing in Goa! But, as she said, her holiday in Goa actually worked out. They fell in love, married, and she moved to India to be with him. They have now been married 9 weeks. Newly weds! She shared her story with me, and it was so lovely I asked permission to share it with you all. Below is her story:
Hi,
I am "R" and I am the lady who lives In Bangalore who has recently married my very own Indian love!
To explain, I was not questioning your partners love for you, which I feel sure is sincere. I was just trying to fully understand your situation. Believe me, I have had to deflect and answer every negative comment about my relationship, but, I am proof that inter-cultural love can work.
You asked me how I met my husband, so here goes...
3 years ago I was on holiday in Goa, he is a Dr and was attending a medical conference and we happened to be staying in the same hotel. I thought he was beautiful, but we exchanged nothing more than a pleasant hello when we passed each other, this went on for about 8 days. On his last evening, he stopped me and asked to exchange email addresses, which I agreed to do.
We corresponded regularly for about 5 months, by email and telephone,I was travelling to Mumbai for business, he asked if we could meet and he travelled to Mumbai from his home in Bangalore. We spent a wonderful week together and on my return we continued to correspond. I returned three months later to India and we met again and so it went on for about 12 months. Over this time our feelings were becoming deeper and the distance was harder to bear.
He is a Hindu and from the Bunt community, his parents expected him not only to marry a suitable Indian/Hindu girl, but, also a girl from the same caste. We had discussed this at length and I had always accepted that eventually he would have to leave me, but, he always promised that he would be honest with me and keep me involved with any plans being made by his parents.
But, the love we had was too strong. His parents were aware of me, and didn't mind his involvement so long as when the time came he did the right thing and married as arranged by them.
Time moved on and we have been 'together' for about 2 years. He was visiting his family home in Mangalore when one morning I was woken by the telephone, it was my boyfriend, he had told his parents about me, told them he intended to spend the rest of his life with me and that it was a non-negotiable. His Mother was devastated and tried everything to convince him that I was not the right person for him.
There was a series of family weddings at this point and his Father eventually said, invite "R", let's get to know her before we make any decision.
I nervously flew to Delhi to attend the wedding of his cousin as his guest and I met the whole family in one go (believe me there are a LOT of them).
To cut a very long story short, his parents, although never thrilled with the idea, eventually came around. I can not say that they are 'happy' with the union, but, we are friendly and I hope that over the years they will come to accept me.
We had everything set against us working out culture, religion, distance and yet we slowly and surely built strong foundations and a lasting love.
Very nice real life story.
Sarah, I’m so happy to hear this! It makes me smile so big!
I wish you all the best with YOUR Indian man. Please keep writing me and keeping me updated!
This gives me so much hope! I’m very lucky that my boyfriend told his mum about me two weeks into our relationship and she has been very kind to me. We met at university (we both graduate in 5 months!) and have been together for three years. But when it comes to crunch time, ie deciding to marry, it’s going to be very hard… I’m so worried his family will say no and he’s worried too. Marriage is still a long way off… but I still worry
Hopeful, wow! Together for 3 years, 5 months till graduation (and hopefully jobs follow!) You’ll both be set! Deciding to marry seems very easy for some. For me, it is a huge decision that I seem to have trouble making. Especially if it’s not right, meaning if it’s rushed or done in court, which sometimes we have talked about doing just to keep him in the states. But it’s not my ideal situation. 3 years is long enough to know if the two of you are right for each other and with careers on the horizon, you’ll have the finances to make it work. Even if his family says no, (which they just may) if he loves you enough I don’t think he will let that sway his decision. Seems like he’s planning on living in the states, so perhaps his family’s opinion in India won’t affect his too much. And the fact that he told his mom about you 2 weeks in is a good inclination he’s going on his own terms! Best wishes! Keep in touch!
hi ,
i love to read all this love storys!!
i am a girl from europe and i am also in love with an indian man witch i met when i was on holiday in india,he was my guide ,but our situation is very complicated bcoz i am married with somebody since 2 years and we are together since 8 years since i was 16 years old!!!!
i never thought that i will get in love with somebody else and i never thought that i will cheat my husband and now i am so confused and dont know what to do .
between me and the indian man is a very special relation and i feel that we 2 have so much in common, we have such a good chemistry and sometimes i feel that i just want to run to him to india and beginn a new life with him but this would be such a crazyness.i also feel that i want to have children with him much more then i want with my husband.
i am affraid to take any decision bcoz sometimes i am thinking that maybe between me and the indian man its just passion and slowely this passion will die.
if i move to him my life would be completed different and if he would move to me to europe his life would be changed and i am affraid of all this changes even if i love him and thats why i think he will remain just my lover or better say THE BEST LOVER !
maybe i dont love him enough and thats why i can not separate from husband !! i dont know !! life and love is so complicated sometimes !!!
from all this personal story i learned some things :
first : never say never
second : never judge the people or their culture and civilization
third : love is blind
in short , that is my story !!!!!!!!!!!!
Hi Dear,
its your short story but you should think much about yours, your husbands and your lovers future. We should be with people we dont want to think about other people but some or the other days you will get a bad impression on you that will hurt most.
so i suggest you that you should continue your relation with your husband only as of my best knowledge.
and if my guidence was not satisfied or you got hurted iam sorry da.
as a good friend i suggested you. THINK TWISE OR THRISE BEFORE YOU DO SOMETHING.
I couldn’t agree with you more. A marriage is a commitment to for LIFE. You don’t take lovers. And most certainly you don’t go around telling people about your ‘lover.’ What it tells people is that you are unfaithful and an irreputable woman. You also give people the impression that all ‘western women’ act like this. The movies and TV already give the rest of the world such a bad opinion of us already! Quit sleeping around on your husband and learn to be a good wife! Its what you agreed to when you married him!!! If you regret marrying him then learn to live with it. Because in case you didn’t read the fine print… marriage is a binding contract for LIFE. So deal with it. Give up the lover. Hes not yours to have.
AM , NEVER JUDGE PEOPLE BECAUSE YOU DONT KNOW WHAT IS IN THEIR HEART AND SOUL .
I agree with you that marriage should be a commitment for life but in THE REAL LIFE , sometimes things happen without planning it . We are not robots , we are human ,thats why we get in love and thats why we make also mistakes getting in love in the person we should not or we get in love in a wrong moment .
What happend to me can happen to anyone , although i know that you will say that this will never happen to you , that you are not “a unfaithfull and irreputable woman” – like you have described me , without knowing me , just after reading some lines .
Maybe i should have not used the word lover to describe my indian love but i used it not even in the sence that you know the meaning of lover ( having sexual relation with a person) and i also didnt slept around my husband so quit throwing with garbage on other people .
I wrote that lines not because i wanted to tell the world what a “bad woman” i am , i wrote it because i just wanted to tell to somebody my story and thought that the people who are reading it are sensible enough and would see the sentimental part of the story and not blame me for getting in love.
Marriage is a commitment. You do not get married because of lust. Its for LIFE. If you enter into it with the idea… that its for life and you stay committed there isn’t a problem. But its when a person starts looking outside of the marital bonds that they cause the problems that lead to divorce. There are times when divorce is necessary to escape abuse or violence… but telling the world that she/you wants out of her/your marriage just because she/you likes the ‘indian lover’ better it shows not only a lack of respect for the bonds of marriage but also a complete and utter disregard for her/your husband and family as well.
Frankly… you don’t need to be a robot to see that she has no respect for her husband! Thats sad! It really is.. i feel sorry for him to be married to an uncommitted woman like that.
Marriage is about respect. It is about COMMITMENT and its most defiantly NOT about the thrill of the moment. Its for LIFE. Not for “if I change my mind later…”
If you don’t want to be committed for life… you shouldn’t have married. And yes..I do consider someone who married, then openly tells people they are cheating on their husband and that they prefer their lover to be a bad woman. Don’t like that description… perhaps stop and think about WHY that makes a bad woman… 1. Shows lack of respect. 2. Shows lack of consideration. 3. Shows a total disregard for safety. 4. what if you/she were to get pregnant by said Indian lover?? Ooooh look… time to track down the ‘baby daddy’ and hope hes more responsible than you. I’m sorry… but these just aren’t things a responsible wife, mother and woman would do!
You don’t have to be a robot to understand right from wrong… and if no one ever taught you that… perhaps its time someone did. Cheating on your husband.. is WRONG. So what if you don’t think your in love with your husband anymore… make the best of it because marriage is for life. Taking a lover… that’s just disrespectful.
Hi Vinutha ,
Thank you so much for your advice , it was really a advice from a friend to think twice or thrise before taking a further step and yes indeed i thought 100 of times and i am still with my husband but you can not imagine how much i miss my indian love and he is also missing me like crazy even though we havent met since 1 year . After having so many ups and downs we still love eachother in a very special way and he is still waiting for me ( i didnt asked him this , i told him to continue his life ) although his parents want him to get married with a indian girl .
For me it was and still it is very dificult to divorce because i am with my husband since i was 16 , now i have 26 years and in the first 8 years he was my entire world and then all of a sudden i met HIM , my indian love and got crazy in love and after 2 years i am still crazy in love with him .
Me and my husband we have also a good understanding but all the time HE is coming in my heart and soul . My mind tells me to stay with my husband but my heart is telling me to take the first flight to India !!!
On the other side : the best moments of my life i have spend with my indian love , HE really made me fly , HE gave me wings, HE made me so happy in the short period that we have met .
But sometimes i just want to forgett HIM forever and continue my life from where i left it but i can not dictate my heart !!
Marriage is a commitment. Your cheating on your husband and you expect people to be supportive of it… Or to pitty you for being stuck with your husband and not being able to go off with your ‘Indian lover’ well… newsflash.. hes prolly off courting some other woman by now. Be loyal to your husband. You shouldn’t be cheating on him! All your doing is reinforcing the stereotypes that a lot of Indians have about how unfaithful non-Indian woman are. Well from one non-Indian woman to another… quit messing around on your husband, it makes us ALL look bad!!! If you don’t want to be married to him… tough luck. You married him!
hi
nothing happened wrong just u have extra marital relation with him
if he relly loves you and thinks all good for you then he should better know that you are married and you are cheating on to your husband who has trust on you .you must better know that you are attracted to someone and you were neva cauught just because your husband neva doubts you.And the action(decision) of yours is not less than a child.And if your indian lover cares for you he would have betta told you to se with yur husband cause he should aso know how much problem you will be in if u r caught(just ask him that?).just think about your husband who will bw so hurt.
Hi. I am up to get married with an Indian man. I love him so much.
All the verry best yaar happy life with smile by heart.
Hi MDG,
I have an update for you a few months in to married life with my Indian love. We are soon to be a family! We are expecting our first baby in October. We are nervous, excited and thrilled all at the same time.
My husband is a Dr so I am having excellent medical care, and up to now everything is progressing smoothly. The closeness of family here is really highlighted at the moment, as I am being fussed over and pampered like a princess.
My husband is most excited to see what our little Indian/English baby will look like, although he is nervous that it will have his dark skin and my red hair!
~ R
Thats so funny that your husband worries that your child will be dark skin with red hair! My husband is from India and I am from the US (white: Irish/Native American… the OTHER “Indian” lol) We are trying to have a baby but so far no luck
My birth mother (Irish) had red hair, super pale skin and freckles. I have dark brown hair (native american father) but blue green eyes and I had freckles when I was a kid. There is a possibilty that we COULD have a red headed child because of my mothers side of the family…and things like that tend to skip generations
We wonder alot what our children will look like. My husband is fairly dark with dark brown/black eyes, black hair, and Im VERY pale … so who knows!!
It looks like we may have to use a surogant due to health problems… so this may be a very strange story down the road!
Hi R!
Your lovestory is pretty nice!!
I enjoyed reading..
I came upon this site when i was asking Mr. Google how Indian men can be true to their words of love especially on online relationships as I am into one right now.
Hi MDG,
(I honestly don’t know yet what MDG means since i just happen to found your site by chance and was caught already to reading all the love stories here. ( ^_^ )
Anyways, I’m from the Philippines and I have been chatting w/ this Indian guy everyday for more than 3months now. I can’t say that we already have a serious relationship going on (though i wish lately that it will blossom since he’s really sweet, honest and caring). I’ve read your list on “how to know if he’s taking the relationship as seriously as you are”. And out of 10, well he rated 5. I think that’s a good sign since we are still on the “getting to know you more” stage. (^_^)
I don’t know what to expect, I don’t want to expect actually. I already have one failed marriage with a Filipino guy. And my Indian guy friend knows everything about my past. I told him. But he said past is past. What are important are today and the future for the two of us. And MDG, I do find that romantic…
And so, I am waiting. Keeping my faith that we really do have a thing going on here because I really am have fallen in love with him. Wishing too that he really is in love with me as he said.
So that’s it!
Thanks!
And more power! (“,)
Hi R!
Your lovestory is pretty nice!!
I enjoyed reading your story..
I came upon this site when i was asking Mr. Google how Indian men can be true to their words of love especially on online relationships as I am into one right now.
Hi MDG,
I just happen to found your site by chance and was caught already to reading all the love stories here. ( ^_^ ) including yours.. and i’m sorry too coz it didnt work out.
Anyways, I’m from the Philippines and I have been chatting w/ this Indian guy everyday for more than 3months now. I can’t really tell that we already have a serious relationship going on (though I can say from my end we do have and wishing lately that it will blossom since he’s really sweet and caring). I’ve read your list on “how to know if he’s taking the relationship as seriously as you are”. And out of 10, well he rated 5. I think that’s a good sign since we are still on the “getting to know you more” stage. (^_^)
Yet honestly,i really don’t know what to expect, I don’t want to expect actually. I already have one failed marriage with a Filipino guy. My Indian guy friend knows everything about my past. I told him. But he said past is past. What are important are today and the future for the two of us. And MDG, I do find that romantic…
And so, I am waiting. Keeping my faith that we really do have a thing going on here because I really am have fallen in love with him. Though I am worried he’s not that honest w/ me.
That’s it!!
Thanks!
Ahhh!
That’s amazing R! Congratulations! October is MIM’s birthday month too. 
Your situation with a doctor as a hubby and loving family around sounds perfect. So good to hear everyone has come around and has accepted you with open arms.
I am so excited to see what your baby will look like too! I’ve always wondered. Please do feel free to send me a photo when the time comes! Thanks for the update! Best wishes to you and yours. <3
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wow these stories make me smile of just the thought of being with my indian boyfriend till the end
i’m young,only 20, but i have been close friends with him for almost 3 years now,and just recently, actually a month today,we became a couple. I never would have imagined myself dating him,much less an indian guy.I love him so much, but the thought of all the differences between our families worries me a little. I am spanish, my parents were born in Nicaragua,and i was born in new jersey. My family is wild and crazy, and well, i never met his family, and i get very nervous when i think about the future between us.
but this is a great website, actually makes me feel a little more secure with everything. Love all these stories!
i can totally understand you. same thing happend with me and my bf.
my parents are from Cuba and i was born in Miami. so i completely understand where you are coming from. Latin families tend to be very loud and crazy. believe it or not Indians are very similar to us . i hope everything goes well for you.
Dont worry for about the families you and your love will be together life long so if you both are in perfect love then go ahead. Be happy forever. I wish all the very best for your future,
Welcome Jasmin! Thanks for sharing your story. A month is still very fresh, so in time I think your worries will get less and less. It must be nice being friends for so long before dating! I think that’s the absolute best way to date – starting out as friends first. Keep in touch!
i just thought that married life is the happiest point of my life.’~~
IT IS IN LIFE
married life is the happiest part of a persons life if the wife and husband really love each other”"`
Hi MDG,
I have been keeping up with your posts. I was sorry to learn that India was not for you at this point in time, but, you can never accout for homesickness and missing the people you love. I am also very sorry that you and your Indian man have hit a bump in the road.
But, this is just an update for you, my Indian husband and I are now the happy (and exhausted) parents of a beautiful baby boy! He does not have orange hair and a brown face as feared by my husband. He is darked haired and fair skinned and just adorable.
For me now this is the begining of a whole new path in my life, begining from a simple holiday friendship to uprooting myself from my western lifestyle, through inter-cultural love to inter-faith marriage. Along the way I have suffered from homesickness, doubt, prejudice, joy and now when I look at my son asleep in my husbands arms total peace and love and happiness.
Keep well MDG on you own path, I wish you much happiness too
~ R x
married life is of course a very happy life, all you need to do is find some happiness deep inside yourself *;.
Hi to all
I love reading this posts, it kind of gives us all hope that Love is the strongest part in humans and it can brake the mountains. Indian love is very close to my heart too and I hope I will be able to tell you my full love story in few weeks…. as my advice, follow what your heart tells you no matter what. All good things in life you have to wait for, be patient and work hard for it…. don’t let anyone take your dream away from you.
Cheers
Jazz
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nice love story…that is if the indian man has the courage to fight for that love…sad to say..in my case..i dont think my partner wil fight for me…more than anybody else…he loves his mom and will never go against her will…
have given so much to him..but sadly..i know its gonna end soon…i dont think he loves me that much for him to stand for me…
Hey Natalie … i have always wondered that women keep complaining about the guy being very attached to his mom and he never will go against her wishes …. but is it not possible that since he is so attached and so is she , so they can talk as friends ?? you know just a thought .. im an indian guy and im too very close to my mom compared to my dad but again i know that if i tell my mother someday that i like this girl whom i wanna be with she will be more than happy for me and will accept and respect what i decide and who i decide
) i just think its just a mental block that guys close to their moms will not take a stand .. if you ask me … i think such guys respect emotions and notions of a women more than the regular guys 
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i know how you feel natalie..
If a man really loves you, then he will stand up for you. If hes too afraid to stand up to his family for you… he woudlnt protect you from anything in life. If his family love him, they will accept you. It may take a while, but prove to them that you are worthy of their son.
AM what you say is very true. I see many inter-racial couples, especially Indian and white and I am sadly coming to the conclusion if he loved me he would standby me and be proud of what we have and would stand up for me, and surely a mothers love is supposed to be unconditional and surely it is every mothers wish to see their child with someone who truly loves them, and has stood by them in many ways.
I guess it is true to say that love simply isn’t enough. Or perhaps I am just to saddened by my situation to see anything else.
Not every man is strong enough to stand up to the family pressure and tradition. My husband put distance between him and his family for a time so that they would have time to adjust to the fact that he married me. Now he talks to them again and they see that I am not going to leave, that I’m committed to him. I take care of my husband and stand by him no matter what as he does for me. If your man wont do that… as painful as it is to say… he may not be the right one because if he was, he would have no doubts. My husband and I married and had no doubt about each other even if others did. Those doubts have faded with time. Also, keep in mind though that part of the reason so many Indian parents have doubts is that they hear and believe in stereotypes about what white/American women are like. They doubt that we are committed or that we would be a good wife. They want what is best for their sons, so I can understand their hesitation especially if they are upper caste type families who fear breaking tradition or what others will think.
Hi
I feel as though I am not given the chance to show to his parents how I feel about him. He has said to me countless times that I care for him as a life partner would and not someone in a casual relationship.
He is currently back in India, but he tells me every day that he wishes that at the end of each day that he was coming home to me, rather than to go to his home there.
We knew each other some time before we dated, he originally told me his family would not have an issue with us dating, and yet it was more than a year after that conversation before we began to see each other.
I would like to be given the chance that is all. It is difficult to explain all that has happened in our time together, I have stood by him, simply because I love him, but he won’t even tell his mum anything at all about me, or the life that we lead when he comes here to work.
I feel very confused
hi
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congrats for writing such a sweet real love story of your life.Would like to have some more writing from ,Please keep on going..
Nishikant
i am having the same problem my girlfrnd is a baniya n m a bengali i love her like anything ,m 21years old but the biggest problem for me is that she is 2years older to me.I will somehow manage to convince my parents but m afraid that she may not go against her family even though she loves me equally.she asked me to convince her parents another problem is by the time i’ll be graduate (in 2013)she has to get married as in their community girls get married atmost till 25,so i may need one more year to get thing ryt financially..so i dont know how to convince her parents of that.
My love story has not ended as happy as the ones told here. I met my indian love a year ago in Goa . I am from England and have been out 3 times this year to be with him .. He asked me to marry him and introduced me to his friends and family , even staying at his family home in the country .. I plan to move to Mumbai next year so meeting him felt part of that plan … I have never been treated so well and had such a nice time over the last year.. He was the most gorgeous man I had ever met and I got to know his friends well …
I have just returned from spending another 9 weeks with him… I was back a week and had a phone call that changed my world….he actually is engaged to an indian girl has been with her 3 years…. But is married to an older Scottish lady who won’t give him a divorce because he took her money … He also has another Uk girlfriend who he has been with for a year . He told us alll he would Marry us …. He had taken money from all of us … I gave him money to help start up his new beach bar in Goa.. I was there for the opening …. He since has told the indian girlfriend that he had no feelings at all for the westerners he just needed money and only took me to his family so I would trust him.. He is still lying now to all involved and doesn’t think he has done wrong…
I love india and the people , long before I met him.. But I’m really struggling with this all… I’m not a stupid person normally and I can’t believe this has happened… I am totally devastated by it all .. He had taken the shine a bit off of my love affair with india.. But I still plan to move next year as I feel like I belong in india…. Seeing these stories gives me a little faith that not all indian men see White westerners as cash…. I’m really heartbroken and it’s really early stages, I just want to get over this all and not hurt as much .
K
Oh god. I’m so sorry! There are scum bag con artists everywhere. I fell for one when I was still in college and he cost me everything I had and put me in debt that on my own I could have never gotten out of. That was long before I met my husband. My hubby doesn’t have other women stashed away anywhere and hes like me.. just wants a simple life. We don’t like fancy things and we prefer to save rather than spend. I also had nothing in way of fiances so I know he wasn’t into me for money.. I had none.
In your situation… my recommendation is to PLEASE dump his sorry a$$ before he does more damage to you. Don’t blame all Indian men for the actions of one bad apple. You deserve better!
Thank you , yes I have definitely dumped him and want nothing more to do with him…. I’m not going to let him put me off my dream of having a wonderful life in india , or put all indian men in the same box as him ….. I’m just so sad, india has from the first moment I had the luck to work there ( 4 years ago) held a happy beautiful place in my heart…. It’s early days , I only found out 1 week ago and I know I will feel better in time….. I just need to get back out and build memories of india that don’t involve him …
I really thought I had found the most wonderful man, next time I will be more careful for sure but I’m not letting him put me off .
Did you have a traditional Hindu wedding? How did you prepare for it? I am staring that down in 4 months and feel ridiculously lost, despite the research I try to keep putting in. Any available help?
Hi. I am happy to read some of the posts and are a little bit inspirational. I have gotten to know an Indian man for about 3 years now and have found I want to spend the rest of my life with him. I fear he will leave one day and get married to an Indian girl, like so many other stories I have read. He says he would never do that though. I know he loves me, but still I worry. Reading or hearing “happy ending” stories make me a little more positive about future outcomes. To the original poster, I am happy you and your husband are doing well and I hope your son is well too. Thank you for sharing your story.
Hi all..
It feels so nice reading all ur love stories.. All the best..
i loved a bunt girl for 4 years and it was a very serious relationship….she always told me dat she ll marry me no matter wat her parents do to change her mind..but atlast wen da time came for her to make a decision, she ditched me n now she s happily engaged to another guy..u should consider urself luckyto be married to a bunt because dose people ll never leave their conservative attitude towards their caste…!
dear all
I read all the posts, and made a conclusion that, in love marriages or arrange marriages, by either nationlity, listen to ur heart as well as mind. And discuss with ur hubby, to reach a agreed goal/decision.
Nowdays, scamers are everywhere, be careful.